Today was an opportunity I could have missed.
I got out on the bike today and enjoyed a ride through the Chickamauga Battlefield National Park. I had been in the office working all morning, trying to coordinate upcoming events, keeping up with an expedition that’s overseas right now, and trying to keep the new business filling the pipeline. I grabbed a late lunch and then, in the middle of the day, I found myself outdoors, whistling through the autumn leaves, gazing around at the gorgeous golden colors, avoiding the deer grazing along the side of the road, and filling my lungs with fresh, perfect air.
It was a glorious day, and I was out there immersed in it. It was so exhilarating that I had goose bumps up my arms.
I’ve got a question for you. When was the last time you did something that gave you goose bumps? It might have been a trip, a visit, an activity, anything that you’re passionate about. In your everyday life, do you make time to do anything that absolutely challenges your body and mind, and makes you feel alive? In other words, what is your lifestyle, right now?
Now I ride the bike a lot. Although I do love getting out on the bike, it is really not just something I do. It’s not specifically about the bike. I don’t do it to lose weight, or to bring down my blood pressure, or anything like that. It has more to do with lifestyle and, more accurately, the lifestyle I decided that I did NOT want.
That’s far different from a diet, which is a short-term fix…a band-aid on the symptom of the real problem. It is also not a “take-away” or denial of things I want or enjoy. For me, this lifestyle change means that I want to accomplish, to achieve, to improve and excel. And then there are the unexpected things about the activity. Getting out there requires me to be fully invested, all-in on the activity. The result is that it empties and purges all the nonsense that clouds the mind.
Again, it has nothing to do with the bike, but has everything to do with being fully invested. That’s why “vacations” don’t necessarily work. It needs to be something to which you must give your all. Skiing might do it. But sitting on the back deck gazing up at the trees, doing absolutely nothing can do it, if you commit to doing it completely and decisively. Maybe playing frisbee with the dog, or play with the kids. And so, it’s quite true to say that, for me, each and every ride is a vacation. Yes? That’s about the size of it.
Now there are days when I don’t feel like going through the hassle of getting everything together, driving way out there, and getting out on the bike. It takes a lot of time out of my day. Sometimes I feel there’s just too much to do, or I feel too heavily engaged, or just don’t feel motivated. I considered reasons not to go today. But then I remind myself, “hey, this is who you are and how you live. Get going. It’s out there waiting.” And so I went today, and was quickly reminded of something I say all the time. We wait around all the time for motivation to take action. That’s completely backwards. Motivation comes from Action. It’s like our favorite definition of Initiative: “changing the situation by action.” Well Motivation is just like that.
I almost didn’t take action today. But, after getting home, I’m all fired up and wishing I weren’t indoors.
All these things represent leadership principles that we exhibit for ourselves, either good or bad. We either live them or we don’t. But one thing we know is that Leadership is not something we create at a moment’s notice. It’s something that’s lived.
We all know things we’d like to do, or problems that need fixed. Failing to “change the situation by action” is anything but good leadership. Right? What are you passionate about? Is there anything at all? Are you doing it?
I almost missed that experience today. Autumn is here. It’s gorgeous out there. Get outdoors. Enjoy life! Have fun. Work hard. Play hard.
Posted By: Laura On: April 01, 2011 At: 6:47 pm
Nice…I really related to this article Steve. I have this tree in my front yard that is about 17.5 feet around at the base. It extends up and out over our house and into the sky like nothing I’ve ever seen before. When we had the storm last month, I called my brother to ask him to drive by our house before we came home and see if the tree was still standing. A tornado touched down on both sides of us and somehow that tree (and thankfully our house and animals) came away completely unscathed. I couldn’t believe it – trees down everywhere but that tree is as mighty as ever. It’s part of our lives – in the fall we rake leaves and acorns from October through January, in spring we clean up sticks after the storms, in summer we enjoy the very solid shade and in the winter it creaks and moans and reminds us it’s still there.
I’ve had people stop and look at our tree from the road and I’ve had people tell me I should have it cut down before it crushes us in a storm. But, when I lie down on the deck on my back on a beautiful day and really lose myself in thought looking up into that tree – leaves or otherwise, it takes my breath away. I’ve come to think of myself as the keeper of the tree.
Posted By: Stewart On: October 21, 2010 At: 10:30 am
Well said my friend. That is exactly why I picked up running. I needed an outlet. You have to have an outlet of somekind to fulfill your day. A complete balance is soothing to the body and the mind. Like you, I live for being outdoors doing anything. And also I live for physical (laboring) activity. When I finally picked back up running after decades of sitting around, it was a wonderful oportunity for so many reasons.
I was able to get outdoors and enjoy the countryside, people, or just being one with my thoughts. And after 5 years or consistently running I am misserable when I fail to make/get the opportunity to go. I do not run every day – it is every other day. There are many times I feel like I don’t want to do it or can find an excuse not to. But once I finally get out there, the benefit of being one and outdoors clears the mind and the aches.
When I would deer/turkey hunt the past couple of years the best part of the whole activity was being outdoors. It is so refreshing to sit for hours outdoors with nothing to do but notice and watch the animals and nature around me. So beautiful.